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Get radically honest with themselves—and finally understand why confidence doesn’t come from faking it, but from facing it.

We’re not talking about clothes (though yes, vulnerability is sexy).

You've heard about the emergency response system (fight, flight, fawn, freeze)? This is your emotional response system —built from childhood wounds, wired into our nervous systems, and activates when you feel unchosen, not good enough, like you don't belong.

In this raw, witty, and powerfully relatable talk, I help people uncover the root of their insecurities and unlock true confidence by stripping away the layers to expose the 7 Primal Wounds and how survival wiring pulls us toward familiar dysfunction. I also show how s. It’s not sabotage. It’s our brain’s sneaky attempt to heal. But healing only happens when we get honest… and get naked with our story.

My PRIMAL Response System (Pre-Activations, Primal Wounds & Primal Responders) teaches people how to navigate emotional triggers with clarity instead of chaos—so they can engage better in every relationship. It’s not about pretending you’re healed. It’s about learning how to put your primal wound in the copilot seat and fly the plane anyway.

You’re not broken—you just need a new flight path.

I bring neuroscience, storytelling, and a dash of sass to the stage—from being raised in a 27' fifth wheel with no running water and electricity in the rural Sierra Nevadas, to winning an air race in the slowest airplane and managing an in flight emergency. Life gets turbulent. And I’ll show your audience how to fly through it with more confidence, connection, and courage.

Brainy & sass with a skosh of badass.
I’m a commercial seaplane pilot and practicing couples therapist who delivers hard truths wrapped in humor and heart. If you want an authentic speaker who makes people laugh and look inward, I’m your girl.

• A breakdown of The 7 Primal Wounds and how they block confidence, fuel self-doubt and keep people stuck in survival mode behaviors (especially in relationships).
• A look inside The Primal Response System—and why it defaults to survival mode, even when it’s holding you back
• Tools to recognize survival-based responses and shift into grounded, confident decision-making
• A step-by-step of The PRIMAL Reset—how to calm your nervous system and rewire your reactions when you feel triggered
• A clear, compassionate reminder: you’re not broken—you're actually functioning exceptionally well (but your patterns suck)