Therapist: 10pm for a first date?

Me: Well, on his profile it said he was “in school” so I understood when he said he “had class” and couldn’t meet up until 10pm.

Therapist: I guess that’s fair, trying to fit a dating life while working a day job and extending his education, nothing wrong with that.

Me: Right. So he said it was night classes downtown. I immediately phoned a few friends to find out what kind of classes were downtown.

Therapist: Hmmm.

Me: Well, my friends thoroughly convinced me that he was probably in night school for his law degree. So I’m thinkin, “Score!“ and willing to accommodate this whole late date deal.

Therapist: Law degree does not equate to excellent suitor. But I concur the education is a good start.

Me: So I pull up to his house at around 9:45pm and realize, it’s the exact condo I almo ... Read More »

The definition of vulnerable is: capable of being physically or emotionally wounded.
The definition of violation is: doing harm to a person, especially the chastity of.

My life is now public and open for attack. While most of the world is generally kind, there are critics, and there are those who are jealous, and worse, there’s those that stalk you.

No stalker is good. But some are better than others. There’s silent stalkers, who never reach out but you know they are lurking, there’s stalkers that reach out to you privately but make themselves known, even showing up to public places, and then there are obsession stalkers.

Those ones are the worst. They follow your every move, they wait for anything to catch a closer glimpse at your life. Usually they start by imitating it, and when that doesn’t get the response they’re looking for, they start doing things to instigate you, including saying nasty things. Th ... Read More »